My buddies of at American Atheists nogodblog point to a column in Newsweek by Marc Gellman, entitled “Trying to Understand Angry Atheists”, who asks: “Why do nonbelievers seem to be threatened by the idea of God?”.
Here is my response:
Mr. Gellman,
I hope this finds you well.
I have just read your column and would like to respond to your rhetorical question: “Why do nonbelievers seem to be threatened by the idea of God?”.
We are not threatened by the idea of god. We are threatened by YOUR idea of god. Yours and Falwell’s, and bin Ladens, and Robertsons, Roy Moore’s, and all fundamentalists of all beliefs. In the U.S. we atheists tend to gripe about christians because christians are in the majority. And an insufferable majority at that.
But we also gripe about radicals of all religions, judaism, mohammedism, hinduism, what ever ‘ism’ you can name. In India we fight against all sorts of spiritual charlatans and fakirs, mostly hindu, but also mohammedan. In Israel we fight conservative and hasidim parties.
We are not angry with our neighbors over their religion, so long as they are peaceful and non-intrusive. If I visit a neighbor or friend for dinner, I do not ask that they not pray before the meal, if that is their practice. At the same time, I ask that they not try to have a prayer circle at my home, when I have them over. They do not ask that I join their prayers, I do not care if they have a small discreet one at my house. Respect is a two way street, the host and the guest must be mindful of each other.
Which brings us to evangelicals. You mention them as a particular target of our wrath. Perhaps, but not because they are religious, but because, to us, they are a bunch of arrogant, self-appointed butinskis that won’t leave other people alone. Whether door to door mormons, seventh day adventists or others, or the local blue nosed, intolerant censor that wants to rid the local library of Harry Potter books or the works of Darwin. They are like a permanent mother-in-law that constantly reminds you that you are unworthy of being their child’s spouse. Even if they act as if they are all sweetness and light, it is always with a disapproving, condescending, sweetness and light. How would you react to someone that constantly disapproves of what you do in a non-religious context? That co-worker that always remarks on not eating meat in a superior tone, or that neighbor that always harps on those damn democrats/republicans?
We are angry, however, when we read things like “Perhaps their atheism was the result of the tragic death of a loved one, or an angry degrading sermon, or an insensitive eulogy, or an unfeeling castigation of lifestyle choices or perhaps something even worse.”.
There may be some that are ‘angry with god’, to paraphrase what you wrote, but not I, nor any atheist I know of. Those that I know are atheist because it makes sense, and the fables and superstitions of our neolithic past no longer fit in a world and universe that we increasingly understand.
We are angry when we hear things like: “How can you be moral without god or religion?”. I have had this, and similar, far more harsh things, said directly to my face.
We are angry when we read junk like the City of Detroit giving hundreds of thousands of dollars to churches for cosmetic improvements to church buildings. Why should we, taxpayers of all beliefs and no belief be forced to maintain a church we choose not to belong to? If the parishioners what the place to look extra spiffy for the Super Bowl, let them pony up the cash.
We are angry when we see George W. Bush funnel money to ‘faith based charities’, in a way that does nothing to ensure these public monies are not used to proselytize those ‘faiths’.
We are angry when the Vice President George H. W. Bush said:
“I don’t know that atheists should be regarded as citizens, nor should they be regarded as patriotic. This is one nation under God.”
As well as :
“I support separation of church and state. I’m just not very high on atheists”
We are angry when supposedly enlightened people like Tom Brokaw, Katie Couric, Bill Weir, Star Jones and countless others repeat the slander: “there are no atheists in foxholes“. This is a direct slap in the face of the many non-believers that have served, bled and died for this nation in all of its wars.
We are angry when we see political action by religious leaders that who were supposedly given tax exemption provided they do not engage in political action. We would rather they pay taxes and then engage in political action. The only thing that would change is the taxes, the amount of political action would remain the same.
We are angry when we see religious displays, almost invariably christian manger creche displays, set up and maintained by local governments during holidays, often with only a pretext of neutrality, like a small snowman or menorah discretely tucked away in a corner or half hidden by shrubbery. Often without even that. Those are our taxes to. When do the atheist and humanist displays go up? Or a hindu ganesh or kali? Or a mohammedan mohammed. Oops, forgot, you get killed for putting those up.
Atheists, freethinkers, humanists. We are all over the political map. All over the social map. We are of all sexes, races, national origins. We are conservatives, greens, liberals, libertarians, anarchists, communists, and probably others none of us have ever heard of. We are straight, gay, European, African, Asian and mixes of all of those. We are highly educated, or not. We work with our hands in trades, or with our minds in professions. We are athletes and couch potatoes.
Indeed, in an online poll a few years ago, in an atheist chat list, informal so unscientific, the results showed an almost 50/50 split between those that leaned conservative/libertarian and those that leaned liberal/green. Almost identical to what we see in the general population. The only difference was a higher likelihood of considering third party viewpoints. In other words, we are more likely to be open to alternatives and new ideas. I know atheists that are politically active and politically apathetic. I know atheist gun nuts and gun banners. Atheist pro-lifers and pro-choicers. If you are involved in any sort of civic, social or political group, chances are you talk to at least one atheist at every meeting, whether you know it or not.
So we are not angry at religion, nor are we threatened by the idea of god. We are angry at the actions of an overbearing, condescending arrogant majority that is imposed, often deliberately and with malice, on those of us that choose to believe in a rational, understandable cosmos. We are angry when we are accused of cowardice or immorality because we are heathens, infidels and non-believers.
And like a raw wound, constantly irritated by ill-fitting clothes, never allowed to heal, we react strongly when provoked by things that normally would not bother anyone.
If you want a peaceful society, keep religion out of the secular government that we all pay for, stop reserving special privileges for religion in the public square, stop subsidizing religion with tax dollars and regulations. Maybe then we atheists that you consider so angry, will stop seeming so.
In other words, do unto yourselves what you have done to others, then maybe you will understand what bothers us so much. And then maybe you will understand that golden rule that has been passed down through human societies since before the written word: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.